Foto by Jody King: Jody with
tourists playing football with the local children!
This is a rant that I wrote about 2 weeks ago
and I certainly feel better now, but it represents what many business owners
have to go through when it comes to hiring people or trying to form
partnerships with people in your own neighborhood. This is not exclusive to Rocinha or Rio, but many places I have lived. I had similar experiences in the US and Canada too. I write about this as I think some people need to hear this as some may not want or cannot express themselves like the way I am going to. It needs to be said.
I live in Rocinha, a huge favela and I really do love living here. I know and understand that as humans we all have our each individual ways of doing things. Nothing upsets me more than people who try to take advantage of others and people who don’t value one’s time. And people who claim to be friends or partners but don’t treat you like you are. People who don't respect me or my time, don't deserve my respect or time. I do my best to follow through with comittments that I have made with people and I have no problem saying, "NO", if I cannot do something.
I live in Rocinha, a huge favela and I really do love living here. I know and understand that as humans we all have our each individual ways of doing things. Nothing upsets me more than people who try to take advantage of others and people who don’t value one’s time. And people who claim to be friends or partners but don’t treat you like you are. People who don't respect me or my time, don't deserve my respect or time. I do my best to follow through with comittments that I have made with people and I have no problem saying, "NO", if I cannot do something.
I love teaching people about our favela and the
truth of what goes on here. Unfortunately the media tends to
sensationalise the bad things. Rarely do they talk about the good things. So,
this is where we come in to show the reality of the situation. Hiring help or
working with others here can be a challenge.
Since 2007 we have been working here showing the
tourists our life from the inside, from the view of the residents. On my
website it states that we only hire people from the favela. The majority
of people who work with me know and understand the value of what we are trying
to accomplish.
Hiring guides who speak fluent English who live
in Rocinha has been very difficult. I have had two guides who worked with me
who stole money from me and one guide who doesn’t understand the value of
people’s time and responsibilities.
The two guides who stole from me there’s nothing
much I can do. So, one stole 40 reais and the other stole 85 reais. Was it
worth it to lose a great job over such little money? Its not the amount of
money stolen that concerns me but that they don’t seem to understand that their
actions create a reaction where they end up being the big loser in the end.
They come from jobs making 40-50 reais a day to work with me and earn 90-120
reais day but they don’t value this.
Last night I had a tour booked for another guide
who lives here who has his own company. He is a good tour guide and have had
nothing but great reviews of his work. His only problem is he has no concept of
time or he says he will show up to meet me but then doesn’t. I have a big
problem with people who tell me they are going to do something but don’t do it.
These people are the same people that if you were to do this to them, they
would be upset and complain.
When I do tours I bring enough money with me to
cover the bus fare for all my guests. This tour guide never has money to pay
and asks the tourists to pay and then at the end deducts the amount from the
tour fee. I don’t agree with this. In my company we always pay the bus fare up
front as this is standard procedure for most tour companies. It doesn’t look
professional if on my website it says that the bus fare is included but when I
arrive I’m asking the guests to pay for the bus. Even if I do compensate them
at the end, I just doesn’t sit well with many visitors. When I am working with
tourists I cater to "their culture” of how things work, not
Brazilian culture or my own “culture”. They are paying me to provide a service
and have certain expectations of professionalism from me and the guides who
work with me.
Yesterday afternoon, I had made an appointment
to visit a friend and their daughter was having a birthday party in another
favela. The party started at 8:30pm but I told them I would arrive by 9:30pm at
the latest. So, last night I asked this guide to come by between 7-9pm to pick
up the bus fare for the following days tour. He replied that he
would come by between 7-8pm. I’m thinking this is perfect for me because I wont
miss the party. If he comes by at 8pm I can leave right away and
arrive at the party around 8:45-9:00. They know I would be arriving a little
late but they said it was ok. So, 7pm comes around, no show, 8pm comes around
still no show. I’m slowly starting to get upset because this person is
obviously not thinking of his responsibility. At 9 pm still no show. I call my
friend and tell her that I’m not sure If I will make it because this tour guide
has not shown up or even called me to let me know what is going on. But I wait
it out because I am thinking that he might just be late.
Finally, I make a decision to cancel his tour
and decide to do it myself. He never did show up last night and no phone call
telling me that he would not show! Total disrespect for me, my time, my friend
and her 6 year old daughter that was expecting me to be present at her birthday
party. This guide ruined my whole night. He only thought about himself and not
that his actions would create a problem for me and my friend (who organised the
birthday party).
Around 11 pm he sends this message saying I am
“too hard and its my way or no way, I thought we were partners.” etc. He is
upset with me. Hey dude, I was home waiting on YOU! I don’t tell people that I
will meet them and not bother showing up! If I cannot make an appointment, I
call and let the person know. One phone call from him telling me that he could
not come could have avoided all this trouble! This coming from a guy who told
me he really needs a job and money.
First lets clarify what the word "Partner" means. A partner, to me, is somebody you know, you spend quality time with who is on the same wave length as you and shares similar goals especially if you work together. A partner is somebody you trust and work together for the benefit of both people, not just one person. Developing a partnership takes time. A partner is not one who you meet on the street in passing say hello, then move on. They are a person who is usually a close friend. Because when working with a partner you share things, experiences that otherwise you wouldn't share with just anyone. So my definition of a partner is very different than what some people here think of it as being.
First lets clarify what the word "Partner" means. A partner, to me, is somebody you know, you spend quality time with who is on the same wave length as you and shares similar goals especially if you work together. A partner is somebody you trust and work together for the benefit of both people, not just one person. Developing a partnership takes time. A partner is not one who you meet on the street in passing say hello, then move on. They are a person who is usually a close friend. Because when working with a partner you share things, experiences that otherwise you wouldn't share with just anyone. So my definition of a partner is very different than what some people here think of it as being.
By not showing up, this is not a partner. Some people don’t understand but this is still a
job. Would he act this way if he worked in a supermarket or a hotel? Of course
not, they would fire him. So why is working with me so different. Lets
make this clear, I know for a fact that if I did this to him, he would not be
happy. He would be pissed off wondering why I didn’t call him or show up.
Partners treat partners with respect. They do
what they say they are going to do. If they can’t do something, then they call
to say they can’t do it . Partners do not leave their partners waiting for
them, then don’t show up and no phone call. I would never think
of doing this to someone.
I think there are several things going on here.
I am very serious about my business but this is why my business is successful.
I am not “hard”, I am disciplined! I still enjoy life but I know my
responsibilities. If you show up at my place for an appointment and you are
5-10 minutes late, no problem. And I am talking an appointment, not
a party where arriving on time is not as important. But not showing up and no phone
call is unacceptable. This is simple common sense and respect for your
“partner”. Also the guide is 24 years old and young. I am in my 50’s
and having lived in different countries I “get it” when it comes to commitments
with other people. We all have busy lives and things to do!
Interesting enough, I have two other guides that
work with me and I have never had an issue with time, being late, not showing
up or lack of communication. Dembore and Obi are both Brazilian born in
favelas. I think the difference is both Dembore and Obi have had heavy contact
with foreigners and foreign culture. Dembore, born in Minas Gerais in a favela
there, had the opportunity to live in the USA for 8 years. In living in the US,
Dembore held down several jobs, mostly working as a server in restauarants and
as an internet installer. So, Dembore understands the value or having a regular
job, showing up on time and when dealing with friends, showing this same
respect. Obi has a brother married to an Australian girl and has had
a lot of their influence regarding responsibility rub off on him. Obi is the
part owner of a hostel in Rocinha and deals with foreigners on a daily basis.
He understands the value of being on time. When tourists come to Brazil, many
are here for a short time. They want to see as much as they can while here so
it is imperative that if we work with them that we respect their time and
limitations. It’s business 101.
I have another guide who is not born in Brazil
but lived in Vidigal for 13 months and has lived in Rocinha 8 months. Jody is
from England and loves Brazil and enjoys living in Rocinha. He loves the great
choices of food, decent transportation, a lot cheaper rent and the friends he
has made here. He also is volunteering with some football projects here. He
approached me over 8 months ago asking about working with us. He had done tours
in Vidigal and also specializes in over 10 different hiking tours in Rio de
Janeiro. He is motivated and again, I have NEVER had any issues of lateness or
not showing up when he said he would. Just this morning he came by my place to
pick up a refrigerator. The moving guy had scheduled to meet at my house at 9
am. Jody arrived at 8:45 am. I had asked Jody to come a little early
because I had to leave to work by 8:50 am to catch the bus. We get along great
because we show this respect for each other. This is the kind of
people I want working with us! Dembore, Obi and Jody, never a problem.
It’s interesting because this tour guide who
wrote to me mentioned something about “your culture”. I am a
business person, so, I have a “business culture”. In other words, I
get shit DONE! I am sure he never would have mentioned this if he were in Sao
Paulo. The “culture” of Sao Paulo is a “business culture”. Much like the
developed world. In Sao Paulo if you don’t show up or call, people will not
take you seriously and it will be very difficult to find work. And
this is in regular relationships too. I see a big parallel with Rio and Los
Angeles and comparing Sao Paulo with New York. The Rio/L.A. thing is similar in
you have the tourism, hot tropical climate, beach culture, relaxed attitudes
etc. Is it the sun in Rio that creates too much relaxed of attitudes
here? In New York and Sao Paulo, life moves faster and people get stuff done
and they don’t wait for slackers or flaky people! But I have met serious
business people here in Rio where we “click” and understand each other they
“get it”. SUCCESS TAKES SACRIFICE!! And success is not about money. Its a
mindset that any project you take on, you work 100% until it becomes a reality.
It’s too bad I didn’t learn this until I was in my 40’s. But, I know my goals
and I prefer those people who share them and want to take part.
When I lived in the USA, I had a job that
started at 10 am Monday-Friday. My responsibility was to show up on time! No
excuses. It was a job where I was paid to do a job. If I was sick or an
emergency came up, it was MY responsibility to show respect to my job and my
boss by calling them and letting them know my situation. . This is not “my
culture”, this is life! In most countries this is how life works! I can’t
choose the time I want to go to work. This kind of attitude is true in most
things in life. Look at sports like football. You show up late? You are showing
disrespect for those players who have showed up on time and this behavior is
not one who is a team player!
I want to give jobs to more people from the
favela but it has become a big challenge finding those who show the
responsibility and understand of what it takes to do this job. I am very easy
to work for. I do not micro manage as the guides are from the favela and know
about life here and how to show the guests the community. They have their
independence as I don’t tell them how to do their jobs.
The three things that make
a successful tour guide and person are :
1.) Show up on time
2.) Respect and follow
through on commitments that that you make
3.) Communicate if you
can’t do something or you are going to be late.
These three things is all I ask from people who
work with me. Is this unreasonable?
If you work with me, all I care about is that
your word can be trusted and you do what you say your going to do. Otherwise,
don’t waste my time!
If you want to be the regular “Joe”, continue
on, but I got shit to do!